What is it with certain women?

You meet the man you want to marry...have kids, get the home and the life you wanted, and yet, you just can't get it thru your head that it takes two.

You seem to think that because you had kids, you're completely immune to certain things.

Even tho my mom is a completely hateful bitch who has no respect for her own children, who would rather keep walking than help them out of a burning building, I do respect the fact that she raised three kids on her own. My dad always gave his share...my sister's dad you had to pry out of him a lot.

These homemaker-mothers-wives stay home with the kids till they're old enough for school...sometimes.

It seems like a lot of them believe they have to stay home no matter what. If your husband makes enough money to support everyone, sure.

But if he's having to stay late...go in early...if you need money for this and that and you seem to always be short...if you just HAVE to get your hair done, want that second car, new shoes that cost outrageous prices, better schools for your kids, better toys, more expensive toys, too MANY toys, etc, etc.....

Get off your fucking lazy ass and get a job. Life will go on...the house will still be there. You can tape your fucking soaps...talk shows...and Jerry Springer. And if there should ever be a reason your husband can't work, whether it's a lay off or illness, get two jobs, at least until he gets back on his feet.

Don't bitch about how you wish it was...life happens...you said you loved him...so deal with it, quit feeling sorry for yourself and help him. Stop treating him like he owes you more than he's already giving you now. You owe him, too. Love..affection (yep...sex once in a while would be a good thing), a kind word would be nice. If not, he may go find that somewhere else.

Don't embarrass him in public by bitching at him in front of others. Don't put him down. Two of the worst words ever are "stupid" and "dummy." Just don't go there.

YOU are lucky. You have a nice house...a nice life...a man who loves you...children that are healthy...friends...family...your health...so much, you ungrateful bitch. And if you are that unhappy, get out. Leave him, so he can be happy, and so can you. Stop using your kids as an excuse to stay.
posted by Wanting at 10:52 PM